I just got off the phone with our adoption counselor in CA.  Now that 
we've been waiting for more than a year, we are able to be put on a last
 minute list for Texas.  This means that a birthmother could be in the 
hospital without prior arrangements for placing her child up for 
adoption.  She for some reason will have chosen adoption and connect 
with the social workers at the hospital.  Then she'll be given our 
information to possibly choose us.  Then I'll have to jump in my car and
 drive to Texas and depending upon the time of day, Mike's teaching 
schedule, etc. he'll jump on a plane and join me when he can.
Technically,
 the concept behind this is that couples waiting more than a year have a
 short notice placement within a six hour drive.  Colorado is a bit of a
 stretch, but we were told that the agency in CA put another CO couple 
on the Texas list, so we're good.  Because it's out of state for us, we 
may have to be in Texas for a couple weeks as the necessary paperwork 
comes through for us to bring the baby back to Colorado.
Our 
counselor told me that there are only 4 other couples on this short 
notice list in Texas.  This sounds promising that we're in a small pool 
of people to be chosen from.  I was e-mailed the form that Mike and I 
will sign, scan, and e-mail to our counselor tonight.
This is 
good timing for this.  I've been feeling pretty discouraged about this 
happening for us.  The fact that we'll be one of 5 couples on this list 
is pretty encouraging.  So, our baby could be coming to us from Texas.  
Who knows?
So, what does one pack for a Throw the Suitcase in the
 Car, you May be Getting a Baby trip?  I'm going to pack a few layering 
clothes for me and Mike as well as toiletries.  I'm going to get a few 
newborn diapers, wipes, and a couple gender neutral outfits to pack for 
the baby.  I know we'll be able to get things while there too.  Any 
other suggestions?
 
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